I tend to ignore the deep stuff (especially now because I'm still numbed)but do know that everything you've said here just echoes what I think and everything else has given me a new perspective.

So on to the random:

- It really was a strange funeral. I've never seen a Hindu funeral done like that. I was thinking this must be some new age fusion type of thing. And yes smoke during cremations are creepy and just really really sad.

- And crack the reincarnation jokes. I need a good laugh :)

- The glancing at Cuddy's hand thing was cute. I love that the actors bother about these nuances.

- I will miss my professional defibrillist who love Star Wars and Harry Potter. We hadn't even had time to discover if he loved Battlestar yet!